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2025

  • Good Troublemakers (14 May 2025)
  • Psychological safety won't make people care (13 May 2025)
  • I've always loved em dashes—and I don't want to stop using them (12 May 2025)
  • You need to be a self-starter to succeed here (04 May 2025)
  • Engineers as AI supervisors (15 Apr 2025)
  • Culture Fit is more important than technical skill (21 Jan 2025)

2024

  • Smooth the path to the interview (20 Dec 2024)
  • Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (and me) (23 Aug 2024)
  • Don't lower the bar to increase diversity (01 Aug 2024)
  • The best team I've managed (22 Jul 2024)
  • Open interviews are my default now (11 Feb 2024)
  • Servant leader traps - being liked (05 Feb 2024)
  • Interviewing after AI in Jan 2024 (29 Jan 2024)

2023

  • Podcast - Psychological Safety with Heather Story (29 Nov 2023)
  • Roundtable - Relocating for work (21 Nov 2023)
  • Podcast - The Coder Career (11 Sep 2023)
  • Roundtable - How to Hire Without Unconscious Bias (06 Sep 2023)
  • Managing Up I (25 Aug 2023)
  • Ethical Office Politics - Introduction (01 Aug 2023)
  • Put them on a PIP (21 Jun 2023)
  • Disagreeing with my scrum master (19 Jun 2023)
  • Over-identifying and burning out (14 Jun 2023)
  • Zombie teams (13 Jun 2023)
  • Are you a disillusioned manager? (05 Jun 2023)

2022

  • Tech Tests and Certainty (22 Oct 2022)
  • How I find a therapist (08 Sep 2022)
  • Unexamined Theory Y Management (03 Aug 2022)
  • PETALs in Engineering Management (20 Mar 2022)

2020

  • Learning NVC through expressing praise (30 Dec 2020)
  • Towards a high view of managers (22 Dec 2020)
  • A thread about adding a new teamie (02 Dec 2020)
  • Facilitation II (02 Jun 2020)
  • Nonviolent Communication Slides 2020 (01 Feb 2020)

2019

  • Thoughts On Hiring 2019 (02 Aug 2019)
  • Postmodern People Management I (08 Apr 2019)

2018

  • On Remote Working Teams I (02 Nov 2018)
  • Manager README 2018 (09 Sep 2018)

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